Marriage Proposal Movie Scenes That Will Make You Cry

Marriage proposals are fairly emotional affairs. In real life, they can be like something out of a fairy tale, particularly since you're agreeing to spend the rest of your life side by side with the love of your life. More often than not, however, they're not quite as perfect and polished in everyday life as they are in your favorite movie or on TV. 

Whether they say just the right thing or capture just the right moment or are just the most romantic or emotional in a way that you just can't quite put your finger on, these marriage proposal movie scenes are sure to tug on your heartstrings. 

If you're of-a-certain-age, you've almost definitely seen the film adaptation of Nicholas Sparks' The Notebook anywhere between one and one hundred times. Noah, played by Ryan Gosling, falls desperately in love with Allie, played by Rachel McAdams, one summer. Allie loves him too, but her parents don't approve of the match as his family isn't as wealthy or "esteemed" as theirs. They reunite many years later, when Allie (who is engaged to another man) sees a photo of Noah and the house he renovated for her in the local newspaper. 

Allie has to decide whether she's going to marry her wealthy Southern beau or stay with Noah. After watching so much of their romance, this scene, with Noah pleading for Allie to stay with him forever, is one of the most heartrending of the whole movie (and there are plenty from which to choose).

While many idolize Noah and Allie's relationship, from the perspective of many relationship experts, that's exactly the problem. According to Harper's Bazaar UK, because the relationship isn't realistic, it leads people to idealize their own relationships, which, let's face it, probably weren't ever going to be like Allie and Noah's anyway.

Regardless of if you love it or hate it, Love Actually has, somehow, morphed into a Christmas classic. There are so many great moments in each of the many storylines woven together throughout the movie, but one of the best is the love story between Englishman Jamie and his Portuguese housekeeper/maid Aurelia. They don't speak the same language, but fall for each other regardless. 

As HuffPost noted, the fact that Jamie walks out on his family's Christmas celebration in order to catch a plane to Portugal to tell the woman that he loves that he loves her is, in and of itself, enough to make any hopeless romantic swoon. After he shows up at her father's house and leads what turns into a parade through town to the restaurant where she works, it's his proposal that tugs the heartstrings the most. 

In broken Portuguese and in front of not only all those who'd followed him, but also all the patrons and staff in the restaurant, and her "yes is being my answer" in English is enough to melt even the most cynical heart.

At first glance, it might not seem as though a movie called He's Just Not That Into You could possibly contain a sweet, emotional proposal. In reality, it has what might be one of the best sweet and simple proposals captured on film. 

Beth, played by Jennifer Aniston, has been with boyfriend Neil, played by Ben Affleck, for years, but breaks up with him after realizing that he is never, ever going to want to get married (he tells her so and everything). After Beth's dad has a heart attack and she's left taking care of him, his house, her sisters, and their husbands, Neil somehow knows to show up and pitch in, which is when she realizes that he's her partner and loves her, whether they're married or not. 

She shows up on his boat, which is where he's been living, and asks him to come home, but to leave his old ratty cargo pants on the boat. As she's helping him unpack, she finds the pants and is planning on throwing them out, but he tells her to first check the pockets. She, of course, finds a ring box in one of the pockets and turns around to see Neil on one knee.

Like Leap Year, there are two proposals — or at least about one and a half — in this rom com classic starring Reese Witherspoon as Alabamian turned New York City fashion designer Melanie, Josh Lucas as her small town soon-to-be-ex-husband, and Patrick Dempsey as her wealthy, well-connected fiancé. 

The first comes from Dempsey's character, who proposes to Melanie by having her driven to Tiffany and telling her she can pick whichever ring she'd like. It's a little dreamy, sure, but the tear-jerking sort-of-proposal comes later in the movie, as she parrots back the words that Lucas' character said to her the first time he kissed her, back when they were kids, to tell him that she won't be signing the divorce papers they had drawn up years ago. After sharing a kiss, Melanie finally gets her first dance with her husband at the haphazard reception her friends threw together at the last minute at the local bar.

Both the Tiffany scene and the one on the beach in the thunderstorm are classics.

While — spoiler alert — Sara, played by Kate Beckinsale, ends up with Jonathan, played by John Cusack and not Lars (played by John Corbett), Lars' elaborately staged proposal is one of those that seems too romantic and picture-perfect to ever happen in real life. The candlelight, rose petals, and giant box containing only an empty ring box will all leave you feeling a little teary-eyed, especially after you see Lars pop out to explain to Sara exactly what's happening.

In an interview with the BBC that came out right before the film premiered in the UK, Beckinsale said that she and her real life (now-former) partner nearly met each other approximately 25 times before they actually, finally, met in real life. They didn't realize that they'd been in such close quarters so many times before until after meeting. Ah, serendipity.

While You Were Sleeping may just be the most underrated seasonal movie there is. While it's set at Christmas, that's really not what it's about, but it gives you a good excuse to queue it up during December to watch one slightly strange love story and one eminently adorable one. 

Ultimately, everyone is glad that Lucy (Sandra Bullock) ends up with Jack (Bill Pullman) instead of his formerly comatose brother Peter (Peter Gallagher). The proposal, however — sweet, simple, and loving — is one of the highlights of the whole movie (though, really, there's not really any part that's bad). Jack's proposal where he tries to board the L in Chicago with a ring instead of a train token — giving Lucy both the love of her life and the family she craves — is a tearjerker for sure.

Picture-perfect, over-the-top, emotional marriage proposals are practically made for movies. Over the years, writers, actors, and directors have created one beautiful proposal after another. While these immaculately polished, teary-eyed proposals might not be all that realistic when it comes down to it, romantic comedies and dramas as you know them just wouldn't be the same without them.