If you're a man looking for ways to make your lady feel more secure, Shane suggests one way is to talk about her positively, especially in front of others, including things like telling fun stories or sharing her successes. Shane elaborated, "This shows her that you value her and that you are proud to be with her at public events."
It's not just about what you say, it's also about how you react to what she says. For instance, Shane suggested that if she is making comments about other women, you can help her feel secure by helping her see that she is just as valuable (and more so in your eyes) than other women. "In addition," she shared, "point out something you love about her that you doubt other women may have or do."
It also helps to really let her shine when she's being celebrated, and to encourage others "to honor her by pointing out what a great job she's done, giving a toast at her birthday party about how much you love her, and simply being there for her."