On the soap in 1991, Kay and her husband, Rex Sterling, put on a masquerade ball for charity, and it was Kay's introduction of Esther on stage that still makes her emotional. Linder explained, "She said something like, 'Well, now ladies and gentlemen, I give you..' She started to say, 'I give you, my maid.' But instead, she went, 'I give you my...' Just a little beat. 'My friend.'"