False Facts About Lana Del Rey You Thought Were True

In order to leave a long-lasting legacy, an artist must dabble in myth-making. Lana Del Rey, the superstar born Lizzy Grant, knows this better than anyone. When she first stepped out on the New York music scene, she already had a meticulously curated image as an icon of glitz and glam. "Elvis is my daddy, Marilyn's my mother, Jesus is my bestest friend," she crooned on 2012's 'Born to Die: Paradise Edition," cementing herself in the company of legends. Over the years, however, some less fantastical tall tales about the singer have spread. Some of these rumors have to do with Del Rey's political beliefs; some of them are related to her personal life or career. Others are more obscure — say, the story about the $18 Shein dress she supposedly wore to an awards ceremony (more on that later). Here, we'll take a look at the most prominent ones and debunk them, once and for all.

Got a 'burning desire" to know more? Ready to head "off to the races"? Without further ado, here are ten false facts about Lana Del Rey you thought were true.

In 2014, a black-and-white photo of Lana and another woman locking lips made the rounds on the Internet. The woman's bone structure and beautiful blonde curls led people to believe she was the movie star of the moment — Jennifer Lawrence, who was stealing hearts left and right as the star of the "Hunger Games" franchise. 

Per the Independent, fans were absolutely thrilled by the prospect. "Lana Del Rey and Jennifer Lawrence kissing might just be the best thing I've ever seen," one Twitter user wrote, punctuating his message with a string of heart-eyed emojis. Turns out his enthusiasm was misplaced — the woman was not actually J. Law, but Lana's own sister, Chuck Grant. (Some may find this truth even stranger than the fiction, but that's an entirely different matter.) Grant, a photographer, was also the one who had staged and captured the shot, which was actually taken in 2012 but didn't go viral until later.

When she first posted the photo to her Instagram account, Grant commented upon her supposed resemblance to Lawrence. "Getting a lot of messages about looking like Jennifer Lawrence, but this takes it a bit too far, don't you think? Lana Del Rey and Jennifer Lawrence," she wrote in her caption. Later, she added a follow-up statement to dispel the rumors: "Comforting to think that if my photography were to fail I could probably work as Jennifer Lawrence's stand-in... #sisters."

Time travel, if you will, back to 2014, when feminism was the new word on the street. Every celebrity, it seems, was asked for her two cents on the topic — including Lana Del Rey. During an interview for the Fader, journalist Duncan Cooper brought up the fact that feminists have had mixed reactions to Del Rey's work. Del Rey responded with a statement that has since become notorious: "For me, the issue of feminism is just not an interesting concept. I'm more interested in, you know, SpaceX and Tesla, what's going to happen with our intergalactic possibilities."

The world has changed since then, and Del Rey has changed with it. In a 2017 interview with Pitchfork, just after Trump's inauguration, she expressed a desire to become more politically engaged. "Things have shifted culturally. It's more appropriate [to talk about feminism] now than under the Obama administration, where at least everyone I knew felt safe [...] Women started to feel less safe under this administration instantly. What if they take away Planned Parenthood? What if we can't get birth control? Now, when people ask me those questions, I feel a little differently.

Lana brought up the "f word" again in a 2020 Instagram post (now deleted, but preserved for posterity on Genius). Her statement — in which she compared her critical reception to that of other female artists — was controversial, but she made one thing very clear: "I'm not not a feminist."

Lana Del Rey's style has evolved greatly over the years, and more recently, the pop star has eschewed designer fashion for more low-key options. Case in point: At the 2020 Grammys, she wore a dress that made her stumble at the mall while stopping to pick up a belt for her boyfriend's fit. Against this backdrop, some fans alleged that the dress she wore to the Variety Hitmakers Awards in 2021 — a strappy green and white number — was purchased from fast fashion retailer Shein.

Shortly after Del Rey's appearance at the event, a fan hopped on Twitter and remarked, "Absolutely losing my mind at Lana Del Rey wearing an $18 Shein dress to the Variety Awards," alongside a picture of a similar dress on a Shein model (per Page Six). Of course, a hullaballoo ensued. Other Twitter users quickly jumped in to offer their two cents — some of them praising her seemingly carefree attitude toward fashion, some of them criticizing her for supporting a company that has been accused of stealing designs from smaller brands. It turns out that all of the chaos was unwarranted: the singer's dress, although on the more affordable side, wasn't from Shein after all. "65$. Fancysticated," she commented under a photo of herself in the dress on Instagram (as documented on Reddit).

Lana Del Rey has performed at venues all over the world, but nobody expected her to put on a show at a Waffle House in Florence, Alabama. In July 2023, a video surfaced depicting the singer sporting a blue uniform button-up as she waited on a customer (who seemed to be none the wiser). She even had her own name tag.

Naturally, fans were stumped as to why the Grammy-nominated artist would be working at a casual dining chain. Many assumed that it was a publicity stunt to promote her most recent album, "Did You Know That There's a Tunnel Under Ocean Boulevard?" — or perhaps a new breakfast-themed single. In reality, as she revealed in an interview with the Hollywood Reporter, she didn't even know she was being filmed.

Del Rey told the magazine that she was visiting Florence, Alabama, with her brother Charlie Hill-Grant and sister Chuck Grant when her notorious Waffle House visit took place. The trio slipped into a booth for some family bonding time and ended up spending the better part of the morning hanging out there. "We were on our third hour, and the servers asked, 'Do you guys want shirts?' Hell yeah! We were thrilled," she recalled. "This guy, a regular, comes in every day and orders two things, so they were like, 'Just go get it for him!' I brought him a coke." That explains her apparent career change.

As soon as Lana Del Ray rose to prominence seemingly out of nowhere, rumors that she was a nepo baby (before the term "nepo baby" was coined) started to spread. A 2012 Guardian article described her as "the daughter of a millionaire father who has backed her career," which then became the dominant narrative.

In October 2023, via a series of now-deleted videos (preserved via Twitter), Del Rey explained that the whole story wasn't being shared. Although her father became wealthy from the domain name industry, Del Rey said, her family previously struggled with money. She was only able to attend boarding school because she received financial aid (her uncle also worked in the administrative building), and while she was there she was bullied and called "White Trash from Lake Placid."

In case her message wasn't clear enough, the singer also posted a comment to Instagram explaining her financial situation growing up (as documented on Twitter). "We had absolutely no money," she wrote. "That's a little story the news loved to assign to me... that was back when they were allowed to just write lies about people. I grew up in a mountain town in a little house, and we struggled as much as everybody else in the town of 900, there is no other truth than that — if the story was true, I would own it just like I own my other issues."