The Truth About Tori And Zach Roloff's Relationship

What's the truth about Tori and Zach Roloff's relationship? The star of Little People, Big World and his wife have charmed viewers for years on the show, which documents the life of the Roloff family. And while the TLC series initially focused primarily on Zach's mother, Amy Roloff, and her now ex-husband, Matt Roloff, fans have been following Tori and Zach with equal — if not greater — interest than the first generation.


One of the things that Little People, Big World fans are especially curious about is the strong and solid romance between Zach and Tori. It's rare that people are given such an inside perspective in a marriage, let alone between a little person and their average-sized spouse. But given how likable and relatable Zach and Tori are, it's not surprising that people want to know everything about them.

While much of Zach and Tori's relationship has been broadcast on TLC for the world to see, there's more to the couple than what you can see on Little People, Big World. Curious to learn more? This is the truth about Tori and Zach Roloff's super sweet relationship.

How did Tori and Zach Roloff first meet?

If you're a regular viewer of Little People, Big World, one of the best shows on TLC, you know it feels like Tori and Zach Roloff have been together forever. And though it certainly has been years since they became a couple, there was a time when they weren't in love for everyone to see.


In fact, it was all the way back in 2010, according to People, when Tori first started crushing on her man. "I met Zach when I was working on his family farm in Oregon," she recalled in an interview with How They Asked by The Knot. "We were both too shy to really approach one another, but we had both told a fellow co-worker we thought the other was cute!" Could their origin story get any sweeter?

Tori and Zach's match-making co-worker was super eager to see the pair connect, too. "This co-worker of ours was so insistent that Zach talk to me," she continued. "But he was too nervous so nothing really came about." At least, not for a while, that is.

Before Tori, Zach Roloff hadn't dated

While it was evident early on that Tori and Zach Roloff were equally interested in each other, romantically speaking, that was unfamiliar territory for Zach. As he tells it, this was his first rodeo, and he didn't quite know what to expect. "I'd never really dated before," he revealed in an interview with People. Hey, who isn't a little bit awkward when they first test the waters of romance? Those are confusing depths to navigate for anyone.


Fortunately, Tori was patient, and she didn't mind spending long days on the Roloff family farm engaged in recreation. "We started playing soccer together on the weekends (although I was just there to see him)," she explained to The Knot's How They Asked, "and we became fast friends." It sounds like having this time to really get to know one another is what made Zach comfortable to make the first move.

It took Zach Roloff months to take Tori on their first date

Once it was abundantly clear to Zach Roloff that Tori was into him, he finally summoned the chutzpah to ask her out on a date. That being said, it didn't happen overnight, as it took Zach quite a while to make the first move once he heard Tori was sweet on him. "About three or four months later, Zach finally got the courage to call me," she told How They Asked by The Knot. "We went out to a movie, and have been seeing each other ever since." That date, by the way, lasted a whopping five hours! 


After that, Tori and Zach became an item, dating for two years before the rest of us knew about it. And sweetly, Tori was Zach's first-ever kiss. "It was an epic night, though. It was on the roof of the swamp fort," Zach gushed in an episode of Little People, Big World. "Full moon right above us. Like, primetime. It was prime."

At first, Zach Roloff's wife, Tori,was scared to make their relationship public

One of the reasons that Zach Roloff was hesitant to start dating Tori had to do with the most obvious difference between them. "Her being average height, me being a dwarf, people obviously stare. Like, they think I'm her little brother," Zach explained in an episode of Little People, Big World. That's why he was so skeptical, as he wanted to make sure Tori was strong enough to handle that reality.


Additionally, once Tori and Zach were committed to each other, she had reservations of her own. "We're such a unique pairing, and we have a really cool story to share, but it was terrifying," she confessed to People. "But the show has helped me realize I shouldn't worry about what other people think."

Plus, as Zach tells it, being with Tori made him a happier and more gregarious person. "Tori brought me out of my shell and made me more social," he added, saying she helped his self-confidence. We are so here for this!

Zach Roloff proposed to Tori on the family farm

After Tori and Zach Roloff had been dating for four years, Zach knew in his heart that it was time to take things to the next level. To that end, he prepared to propose to Tori, making their relationship officially permanent.


However, when the big day rolled around, Tori said she was tired from work and wanted to stay home instead of head to the farm. Fortunately she acquiesced and headed out, though she was tired and cranky, as she tells it. But once Zach got her to the spot he'd chosen, Tori realized what was going on. "It was at that moment that Zach stepped up on the platform and asked me to join," she revealed in a chat with The Knot's How They Asked. "He got down on one knee and asked me to be his wife."

Naturally, Tori was absolutely elated, and, of course, said yes. "It was a moment that took my breath away," she continued. "I was so perfectly happy and excited." She added that she realized what a wonderful spot Zach had chosen, which is now a special place for them for obvious reasons. 


Tori Roloff made this quip about Zach Roloff's personality before their wedding

While Tori and Zach Roloff are very visibly into one another, just like any other couple, they have their disagreements. For example, when it came time to decide where they were going to get married, Tori wanted to tie the knot on a particular spot on the Roloff family farm, and Zach didn't. 


However, after a sagely conversation with his father, Zach relented, and he agreed to get hitched in the location that Tori had selected. She could see through him, though, as she knew he was just placating her. "I've always said that when Zach and I get married, I'm going to get two signs, and it's going to say 'Mrs. Right' and 'Mr. Always Right,'" she joked in an episode of Little People, Big World (via Us Weekly). "I think Zach is just letting me have my way."

Either way, the spot ended up working out just fine, despite any concerns or misgivings Zach had.

In 2015, Tori and Zach Roloff got married for all the world to see

On July 25, 2015, one year after Zach Roloff popped the big question, he and Tori Roloff tied the knot on the Roloff family farm. Just before everything kicked off that day, Zach reflected on what the couple were about to do. "It's a big day," he confessed in an interview with People. "We're marrying, coming together, committing ourselves to one another for a lifetime in front of all of our family and friends." He added that they were "super excited!"


In addition to having 200 guests, Zach and Tori's wedding was broadcast on TLC for the entire world to see — quite the intimidating feat! "Neither of us are spotlight kind of people," he continued. "We're looking forward to setting our lives in motion." Of course, the beautiful wedding went off without a hitch, and Tori and Zach Roloff became husband and wife. 

Five years later, Zach celebrated the occasion on Instagram, sharing photos of the big day. "Our story is my favorite of all time," he wrote in the caption.

This is where Tori and Zach Roloff went on their honeymoon

Shortly after their fairytale wedding, it was time for Tori and Zach Roloff to have a little fun. To that end, they packed up and hopped on a plane that was headed to their honeymoon destination: Florida. "Getting ready to rage with my wife at Disney world and on a carnival cruise," Zach wrote in a post on his Instagram page. "Bring on the honeymoon!" Talk about a blast! That's a super enjoyable way to vacation. 


Tori was also excited to get away, sharing her own Instagram post to commemorate the occasion. "Off to the land of honey and moons with my husband," she wrote in the caption. "Thank you all for the love and support the last few days. Can't wait to share pictures!"

In both of the snaps Tori and Zach were wearing matching Disney shirts with "Mr." and "Mrs." emblazoned on the front. Could they be anymore wholesome?

Tori and Zach Roloff welcomed their first child in 2017

About a year and a half after they got married, Tori and Zach Roloff announced that they were expecting their first child on Instagram. Then, in May of 2017, the happy couple welcomed their son, Jackson Roloff, into the world. "We knew we were leaving our previous life behind, but we were okay with that," Zach revealed in a chat with People. "We're not doing things on our schedule anymore. We're on Jackson time!"


Two years later, the Roloffs had their second child, Lilah Roloff, expanding their family even more. "Zach and I are so excited to introduce you to our sweet baby girl Lilah," Tori shared with TLC Me. "She has been the perfect addition to our family!" Congrats, you two!

Both Jackson and Lilah have dwarfism, the same condition that their father has. And while that can be difficult for a variety of reasons, Tori praised the resilience of her family. "I'm so proud of my husband and his outlook on it all and even more proud of my son who brushes things off with ease," she wrote on Instagram.

Do Tori and Zach Roloff want to have more children in the future?

Any parent can tell you that you life changes dramatically once you have a child. Additionally, if you add a second baby to your family, things can get even more chaotic. Of course, that's not lost on Tori and Zach Roloff, who definitely have their hands full. "It's definitely different with two kids," Zach explained in an interview with People.


However, that's not a deterrent for Tori and Zach, who've found parenthood to be both joyful and fulfilling. So just how many children do the couple plan to have, total? "Originally I was like, 'Two kids is my max,'" Tori confessed. "But I can definitely see us having more."

To that end, in the future, you just might see the Roloffs have a third, fourth, or maybe even a fifth child. "We're loving the season that we're in right now raising kids," Tori continued. "Zach and I always say that we were built for this family life."

Tori Roloff says Zach Roloff is the most thoughtful and selfless person she knows

From their first meeting to their wedding day to becoming parents together, Tori and Zach Roloff have been sharing their lives for over a decade. And as they've moved through their adventure together, the Roloffs have made sure to publicly appreciate each other.


For one, Tori opened up on social media on Zach's birthday in May of 2020, extolling the virtues of her husband. "Zachary, you are without a doubt the most thoughtful and selfless person I know," she gushed in an Instagram post. "You are such a great leader and I am so thankful for your love for me and our kids." She added that seeing Zach become a father has been the "greatest gift" in her life.

Not to be outdone, Zach has also shared kind words about his wife in an Instagram post for Mother's Day. "Thanks babe for being the best mom to our kids," he wrote in the caption.

Tori and Zach Roloff celebrated their fifth anniversary in 2020

In addition to getting married and starting a family, Tori and Zach Roloff went through some additional changed during Season 19 of Little People, Big World. Specifically, the couple and their two children celebrated the milestone of purchasing a new home! And while that's a joyful occasion for anyone, it also comes with its fair share of stress; everyone knows that moving isn't exactly easy.


Packing and sorting stress aside, Tori and Zach's new digs are nothing short of gorgeous, as noted by The Sun. The five-bedroom, three-bathroom, 2,600-square-foot home set the Roloffs back a pretty $560,000 in 2018, in case you were wondering how much Portland real estate sells for. But from the looks of it, the home was worth every penny, thanks to the wraparound porch, swimming pool, and hardwood floors.

Tori and Zach upgraded to their new dwelling after selling their starter home. So whenever they want to resume having children, they'll have plenty of space for it.

Tori and Zach Roloff struggled like everyone else in 2020

We get it. Coping with life in the midst of a pandemic is a challenge for pretty much anyone. That includes Tori and Zach Roloff, despite their privilege, something that's not lost on them. That's right, even celebs are grappling with how the world has changed, and the obstacles that have been cast in their direction.


Tori Roloff opened up about her personal difficulties in a post on her Instagram page. "We've had some pretty rough stuff hit our house the last two months and I struggle with having to attend doctors or medical appointments alone," she confessed. "I struggle sharing my life when sometimes it doesn't feel authentic because our world is so upside down and backwards right now." She added that she's trying her best to cope with her mom guilt, too.

In order to better get a handle on things, Tori said that she's relying heavily on her religious faith to help her hang in there. She added, however, "But I can still vent about it on Instagram right?"

Tori and Zach Roloff celebrated their fifth anniversary in 2020

While 2020 threw plenty of curveballs at Tori and Zach Roloff, there were still some positive moments to light up any darkness. Notably, on Jul 25, 2020, Tori and Zach celebrated their fifth wedding anniversary. "Five years ago I made the easiest decision of my life," Tori proclaimed on her Instagram page. "To marry Zach." She went on, "I have learned more in the past 5 years than I feel like I have in my last 29." That's quite the compliment!


In order to celebrate their five years of wedded bliss, Tori and Zach headed to the Oregon coast for a beach getaway. "We were spoiled with good weather, amazing food, games, the BEST [Domaine Serene] wine, and amazing company," she gushed in a subsequent Instagram post. "I'm so thankful that I have a man that I still love spending time with."

No matter what the Roloffs are going through, they have each other to help them conquer anything.