These Are The Blue Bloods Cast's Actual Partners

There are so many procedural dramas on TV, from all the "Law & Order" shows to the many "CSI" spinoffs. But "Blue Bloods" is different. This CBS drama follows the Reagan family as they navigate the ups and downs of not only being deeply entrenched in the New York City justice system, but also the dramas that just come from being a family, as per CBS. There's Frank Reagan, played by Tom Selleck, who is the patriarch of the family and the police commissioner. Donnie Wahlberg brings Danny Reagan, an experienced detective, to life, while Bridget Moynahan portrays Erin Reagan, an assistant district attorney. There's also Henry Reagan (Len Cariou), Frank's father, and quite a few other characters, as well.

Naturally the large and loud Reagan family gets into lots of arguments over police work and cases, but the show is also full of romantic drama. Like when Jamie Reagan and partner Eddie Janko gave into seasons of sexual tension and finally got married. But what about the actors that bring the Reagans to life? These are the "Blue Bloods" cast's actual partners.

Bridget Moynahan hasn't just made headlines for playing Erin Reagan on "Blue Bloods." The actress was also well-known for publicly dating and then publicly splitting from football pro Tom Brady, and then announcing she was pregnant with his child a few months after their breakup, as noted by Us Weekly. But Moynahan's love life saw a wonderful rebound after all that Brady drama when she met her now-husband Andrew Frankel "through a friend," according to People. Frankel is the co-president of Stuart Frankel & Co., "a Wall Street institutional brokerage firm," a source told the magazine.

The "Blue Bloods" actress and the successful businessman got married on October 17, 2015, at Wölffer Estate Vineyards in Sagaponack, New York. "They wanted a cool vibe and great energy," their wedding planners told People. "They really wanted the night to feel more like a large family dinner party than a wedding. It was all about simplicity and ease." Hopefully the couple is maintaining that vibe, especially with their blended family of boys: Moynahan's young son, Jack, with ex Tom Brady, and Frankel's three sons.

Steve Schirripa has had many roles, from Bobby on "The Sopranos" to Detective Anthony Abetemarco on "Blue Bloods" (via IMDb). But some might argue that his favorite role of all time is that of "husband." The Brooklyn native loves his wife, Laura, and their two daughters, Bria and Ciara, as noted by The New York Times, and even credits his wife as the reason why he booked his famous role on "The Sopranos." "My wife was the one that pushed me," Schirripa told Esquire. "She said, 'You're only happy when you're doing this, go back.' Because I didn't want to spend the money to put myself up and fly myself out. But I did it and luckily it all worked out."

And work out it did. As per The New York Times, Schirripa and his wife are now living their best lives in Manhattan. When he's not filming new episodes of "Blue Bloods," they spend their Sundays in the most New York ways, from going on long walks and reading the paper to grabbing lunch at beloved local eateries.

Len Cariou has had some luck with the ladies. The "Blue Bloods" actor was in a relationship with actress Lauren Bacall back when they starred on Broadway in "Applause" (via The Washington Post). Cariou himself spoke about in an interview with CBS2, saying simply, "Well, we became lovers when we were doing the show." Cariou was also involved with Glenn Close in the early '80s, and the two shared a place together in Chelsea, as per The New York Times. 

Cariou eventually settled down with his now-wife, a writer named Heather Summerhayes. According to an interview Summerhayes did with Ask Wendy, the couple have a house in New Jersey with stunning views of Manhattan in which they enjoy a quiet life. "After writing, I do errands, catch up on email, make dinner and enjoy my husband's company," she said. "We eat out with friends once or twice a week. We love throwing dinner parties when we're home. And we have a few TV shows that are our guilty pleasures."

Abigail Hawk plays Abigail Baker on "Blue Bloods." And the actress and her character don't just have the same name — both are also happily married. In real life, Hawk is married to Bryan Spies, who, according to Starry Magazine, is a first responder. The actress and her hubby share a pretty "normal" life, despite her acting success. "I'm a mom, I'm a wife, I'm a daughter and I have dogs who poop on the floor and chew up my shoes," Hawk told Starry Magazine. "We don't have a nanny. My husband and I do everything ourselves." Romantic, right?

It is romantic, especially since Hawk and Spies appear to still be madly in love. Hawk wrote a gushing Facebook post for her husband's 42nd birthday in April 2021, thanking him for helping out around the house and for being "handy, handsy, [and] handsome." She also calls him her "best friend" and the kind of man who "always finds the silver lining" and "like a prize truffle pig, he will always uncover hidden double-stuf Oreos." She finished the post with: "He's the best of the best, and I am his."