Signs He's Getting Serious About Your Relationship

One of the major signs that your man is getting serious about your relationship is that he's initiated conversations about your future as a couple. For instance, whether he's subtly (or not so subtly) talked about going on a trip together, celebrating far-off holidays and events with one another, or even imagined what it will be like when you're married someday, a tell-tale sign that he's serious about where things are heading is that he's making an effort to include you in his future plans.

The fact that he's open and forthright regarding his desire to initiate long-term plans with you is actually an indicator of just how serious he is. In fact, many men try to put off, or avoid, conversations about where the relationship is going due to lack of interest, a fear of commitment, or uncertain feelings about, well — you. However, when your man is openly and eagerly discussing what lies ahead for both of you, and is excited about what the future will bring, rest assured that your man is serious about you and your relationship.

One of the top signs that a man is serious about your relationship is his willingness to be completely open and honest with you. When he shares his true feelings and desires with you, is forthright about his past, and takes the opportunity to confide in you about personal topics and issues, he's actually showing you just how seriously he takes your relationship.

After all, honesty is one of the cornerstones of a deep, meaningful, and long-lasting relationship. If he's making an effort to put himself out there and is willing to be totally vulnerable around you, he's hoping to build an emotional connection and strengthen the bond that the two of you share. So the next time he opens up about his fears, hopes, and dreams, be confident that your relationship is incredibly important to him.

If you're wondering if your man is becoming serious about your relationship, one of the key indicators is that he fully listens to you. After all, listening to your partner is a fundamental component of a happy and healthy relationship. If he places precedence on understanding, empathizing, and responding to what you say in a helpful, meaningful, and supportive way, he's truly placing a major priority on your relationship overall.

In fact, when he chooses to be present in the moment with you — rather than being distracted by his phone, the television, or any other interruptions — he's clearly showing you that what you say is extremely important to him and that you play a central role in his life. When he can recall minute details and specifics of things that you said to him, or he brings up topics that you happened to mention in passing, he's further demonstrating to you just how significant your words are to him — and, just how important he thinks you and your relationship are as well.

Another possible indicator that your guy is getting serious about your relationship is that he wants to incorporate you into his digital world in different ways. Dr. Peggy Wexler, a research psychologist, wrote for Huffington Post that "Letting a boyfriend or girlfriend scroll through your phone or have access to your key passwords has become something of a relationship milestone. It implies trust and may symbolize intimacy and connection as well." That said, she explains that privacy and personal boundaries are important in relationships. She wrote, "It's important to remember that a person's request for privacy doesn't mean he's up to no good. Similarly, putting your significant other on your shortlist of those with access to your info does not necessarily mean you have intimacy or connection."

He may also choose to incorporate you into his social media presence in a variety of ways, such as friending you on Facebook (or even announcing your status as a couple), following you on Twitter, or posting pictures of the two of you on Instagram. Further, he may simply place you in the top spot on his favorites list on his phone, or create a shared calendar for your upcoming events. Whatever the case may be, these seemingly small actions are actually huge indicators that he's fully interested, invested, and serious about a future with you — both digitally and IRL.

Another unmistakable sign that your man is serious about your relationship is his desire to be with you whenever possible. In fact, he'll go out of his way to create more opportunities to hang out together. Even if he's swamped with work, has outside obligations, or is being pulled in multiple directions, he will still make spending time with you a top priority.

Along these lines, not only will he seek you out to join him in the activities and events that are important to him, but he's also interested in learning about and engaging in the things that are meaningful to you as well. Whether your time together involves sitting on the couch binge-watching a show, or heading out for a crazy night on the town, being together is simply better than being apart.

Wondering if your man is serious about your relationship? Check your medicine cabinet. Whether it's a toothbrush, phone charger, or complete change of clothes, leaving even the smallest things at your place can actually be a big step toward increasing your connection and intimacy with one another.

This action signifies that he not only trusts you and wants to integrate himself into your life in a personal way, but that he wants to be a steady presence in it. With this simple gesture, he's showing you that he's fully interested and committed to moving your relationship to the point where there's a clear sense of stability and reliability. When he leaves things behind, he's not going anywhere soon.

It's clear that there are many different signs to look for, in order to determine if your man is getting serious about your relationship: introducing you to his parents, giving you a key to his place, and initiating conversations about your future as a couple. And speaking of the future, when you're on the path toward having a serious relationship, it's important for you to stay confident and positive about what you have with your man.

In fact, having negative expectations about your relationship or thinking that it'll never become anything serious, can actually become a self-fulfilling prophecy, as your pessimistic outlook can directly impact your future actions and behaviors. But lucky for you, on the flip side, staying hopeful and optimistic about your relationship's potential allows you to fully embrace all of the many benefits of having a serious relationship with a man you seriously adore!