Super Dad Taylor Calmus Talks About The Show, Dude Dad, And His Family - Exclusive Interview

So initially, what attracted you to the Magnolia Network and working with Chip and Jo in this kind of production sense?

So I've been making my own videos online for five and a half years now, but it must've been two and a half years ago now that I got the idea to challenge Chip to a playhouse-building competition for charity. And I did that because basically I was just like you. I was just a fan and loved what they were doing. And I saw him and Joanna and all the similarities of them and me and my wife, very kind of straight-laced mom and then the goofy dad who likes to build things. And I was like, "Oh, cool. This could be an opportunity ... It would be really fun to work with them." So I created this elaborate video challenge. They had a lot of callbacks to "Fixer Upper" and stuff and it caught their attention and he accepted the challenge and we ended up raising $1.5 million for St. Jude.

Wow.

And it was this whole thing. But when first [it] was like, "Oh, I want to do this challenge thing," it was before they had even started the network. And then by the time I did it, I caught wind that they were getting their own network and I was like, "Oh, this could be really cool."

This could be something.

But I kind of was just like, "Let's put it out there, get myself in front of them and see what happens." And then it was at St. Jude that Chip pulled me aside into this little room with Joanna and my wife and a couple of their production people. And he was like, "Did anybody tell you yet?" I'm like, "What's that, Chip?" He's like, "I'm going to make you famous. I'm going to put you on TV." And I was like, "Okay, all right. That's happening." And now two and a half years later, here we are.

I know a little bit about you and how you said that you've been building things for what feels like your whole life, but was there a particular project or a moment that kind of defined your dad construction career? Was there one that really stood out to you in that sense?

Yeah. There was a couple different builds. I think it was the first time I made a Rube Goldberg machine and it went super viral. It was the biggest video I'd ever had at that point. And that was a big wake-up call to me to be like, "Oh, I'm a video creator, but my ability to work with my hands is something that sets me apart, that not everybody does that, especially not millennials."

So then it was like, "Oh, I think that's a part of my brand." Spending 10 years in L.A. trying to be an actor, you constantly hear, "What's your brand? What's your brand?" And early on, you don't know. You're just making it up. You're like, "I don't know. I'm like Michael Cera and Joseph Gordon-Levitt mashed together."

That's funny.

But the more I started to really do my own thing, my brand sort of just showed itself to me. And then once that started to happen, it was like, "Okay, this is my path. Okay, cool." Everything started to make more sense.

Well, and I would imagine that creating structures for your kids and for your family brought a lot of meaning to what it was that you were doing as well, which I think is a fairly unique experience as a creator.

For sure. Becoming a father is such a humbling experience and changes you in this magnificent way because you're forced outside of yourself and it gives everything you do new purpose because it's for a reason. And building something ... I love working with my hands, because when you make something, you get to see the fruits of your labor afterwards. Like when I used to build houses in South Dakota, we'd frame up a house and you'd get there, there'd be just a floor and you'd leave and it's all framed up. And you're like, "That's a house now. It's going to be a house."

When you build things with your kids, you get to see the whole thing come together, but then after that, you get to see the joy on their faces for years to come. And honestly, I think the biggest reward for me is when I hear my kids brag about me, when they're like, "Oh, my dad can do that," and like, "Oh, my dad built this." I think that's the coolest thing is when you get to feel like that hero to your kids, because you built them the thing. And that's what the show is about is, is passing that feeling on that makes me cry right now to other dads and giving them the opportunity to have that same experience with their kids, where their kids ... Because it's not about me coming in and building the thing for them. It's about me coming in and helping them build the thing so that their kids can go, "My dad built that."

I haven't talked about my wife yet either. If you don't mind, I'll talk about my wife for a while.

Please do. I was going to ask.

So my wife is the ultimate support system. She just from very early on, has always supported my crazy ideas, no matter how crazy they are. And a lot of people, like especially online in the comments and stuff, people will be like, "Oh my gosh, she's so patient and stuff." And that's true. But it's always framed as if she's putting up with my shenanigans, when in reality she loves it. She loves it. I mean, there's definitely been some times where she's like, "You have to pick up." But for the most part, she's extremely supportive.

And there was a moment in our relationship, I was like one year into making "Dude Dad" videos, and I was an apartment manager in Los Angeles so we had free housing and my schedule was pretty open. It was pretty available. I'd just fix people's toilets and, and stuff when they needed it, but I could do it in my own time. But anyway, I was doing that. She was working non-profit, making hardly any money. We had a 1-year-old and then the owner of our building sold the building and the new owner that came in was like, "We have our own people, so you don't work here anymore and also you need to move out." So I lost my job, we had to move. So I had to get a new job to make more money because we weren't going to get free rent anymore. Heidi changed her job. We had a 1-year-old and then we found out we were pregnant.

Oh my God.

Yeah, it was all hitting the fan. And that's when I started working set construction with a friend from church to make more money. So I was working set construction like 10 hours a day, a couple days a week. I was trying to audition whenever I can. I was still putting out one video every single week, while taking care of a pregnant wife and a 1-year-old, and it got to be too much. And I finally just kind of broke down one night and I was like, "Babe, I can't do all this. I don't have the capacity." And at that time, we didn't make any money off of Dude Dads. So I was like, "Maybe I need to stop making videos because it takes up a lot of time." And without any hesitation, and I didn't even mention quitting it, she just said, "You're not quitting Dude Dad. You're going to keep doing that."

I'm sure she probably saw that it was something that was really meaningful to you.

For sure. Well, she saw it was meaningful to me. At that point, we only had like 2,000 followers. It was nothing. But it was just the feedback we were getting and stuff. She had the foresight and she knew that it was important. But if she hadn't done that, I probably wouldn't be talking to you today. I'd be working construction somewhere or something. I don't know.

So I'm a little mindful of our time. I don't want to keep you for too long. So kind of wrapping up a little bit, I'd love to know like what a day in your life of filming "Super Dad" looked like.

Sure. It's crazy. So we have a really small, tight crew who are all amazing people. And honestly, I give the crew so much props because this show barely happened, in a sense that like we were so strapped for people that it was all hands on deck to make this thing happen in the amount of time that we had. But we had a small group of carpenters who were just really, really good and worked really, really hard. We got an amazing show runner, and just everyone was willing to do what it takes. And then you deal with rain three out of five days and it's crazy. But there was such high morale on set all the time that it really was a fun experience even during the stressful points.

For me, I'm bouncing around from host to carpenter, to designer, to producer throughout every single day, so it's hectic. Because we only had a few builders, so it wasn't like I could just stand back and not actually do any work. But that was something that was important to me too that if I'm going to be on camera working, I want to make sure that I'm putting in as much time as I can. The reality is on a TV show, when I'm wearing many other hats, I can't do everything. It's not realistic. It would take way too long. But me and Morgan, the other guy that's on camera, both put in lots of sweat equity on every single project.

And the other thing is I really try to keep true to it too. So one of my main jobs that I put on myself is making sure that the dad also puts in a ton of sweat equity on every project. And I tell them that on camera, and then off camera I'm like, "No, seriously, Michael, you're going to work hard. You're going to have to do a bunch of this because we need you and it's yours."

Yeah, reiteration.

So I try to keep that as authentic as possible. And you'll see it in every single episode. I'm drenched in sweat almost the entire episode.