Meet Rapper Cordae, Naomi Osaka's Boyfriend

It takes a strong, secure guy to date a woman as formidable as Naomi Osaka. The four-time Grand Slam winner and self-described "fashion nerd," luminary," "entrepreneur," and "social change advocate" (according to her official web page) can not only deliver a tennis serve that will tear a hole through you, but she also doesn't suffer fools gladly. But she's finally found a guy who's up to her standards — for the past few years, she's been dating Grammy-nominated rapper Cordae (formerly known as YBN Cordae) and the pair are expecting their first child in 2023 (via Instagram).

Cordae, like Osaka, is seriously dedicated to his craft. Growing up listening to hip-hop with his dad, he started experimenting with his own lyrics early and released his first mixtape when he was 15, according to Billboard. While studying at Towson State University in Maryland, he befriended hip-hop artist YBN ("Young Boss N***az") Nahmir and soon started performing with the YBN Collective as YBN Cordae. He first attracted serious attention for his remake of Eminem's "My Name Is" and hasn't stopped since. 

And, just as Osaka has used tennis as a platform to promote bigger causes such as mental health (per Time), Cordae sees hip-hop as a vehicle for social uplift. "We [musicians] ain't out here selling drugs," he told Complex. "Instead of being a product of our environment, we're able to speak on the sh*t that's going on."

When Cordae disclosed his relationship with Naomi Osaka to "Ebro in the Morning," he shared another confession as well: Their relationship was not new, as the couple had been dating for close to a year. It wasn't exactly a secret — as TMZ Sports noted in 2019, he'd made a brief appearance in video on Osaka's Instagram account, in which she giggles at him as he adjusts his hoodie in front of a mirror. "Omigod, you're so clumsy!" she says with a laugh. (Though, at the time, a mutual acquaintance of the pair told TMZ Sports they weren't officially an item — yet. "Just give it a week," the source said.)

But by the time Cordae appeared on "Ebro in the Morning," they had been an established couple for some time. "We kept it hidden — I don't like to go too public with my personal life," he said, adding that denying their relationship at this point in the interest of privacy would be "disrespectful to her." By the end of 2020, the pair started appearing together in public, according to Women's Health – and their mutual affection was obvious.

Some musicians see music as a form of escapism, a way to take themselves and their listeners away from the troubles of the real world. But while GQ describes Cordae's music as "fun," he sees it as an instrument of change. "As artists we are the gatekeepers of time," he told GQ. "We do have some sort of responsibility to speak on the times and things that are going on. And it is a responsibility to speak on the things that are affecting you in the community, because that's what we have: a voice."

He credits his mother for helping him develop his social consciousness. "I was always reading Harry Potter books. And my mom was like, 'If you can read a 500-page Harry Potter book, then you can read about your people,'" he said. So, at the age of 10, he began reading "The Souls of Black Folk" and biographies about influential members of the Black community, like Thurgood Marshall and Johnnie Cochran, he told GQ. In fact, the lessons he learned have stuck with him and inform his musical voice today.

If you're dating a musician, there can be few higher honors than being celebrated in their songs. While Cordae generally likes to keep quiet about the details of his love life, he's not afraid to give Naomi Osaka the occasional affectionate shout-out in his music. As Genius.com reports, a couple of songs on his EP "Just Until..." make fairly obvious references to her. His song "More Life" contains the line "My girl a tennis star," and in "Dream in Color," he brags, "My girl would forfeit a tennis match to meet my grandmama/ Man, she truly a keeper."

The latter lines did not sit well with tennis fans, many of whom thought they reflected badly on both Osaka and Cordae. "Hypothetical or not, she was willing to throw a match to meet someone she isn't even related to," a fan wrote on Tennis Forum (per Women's Tennis Blog). Regardless of the fan comments, it's clear from Cordae's shout-outs about his girlfriend in his music that he's in it for the long haul.

When it comes to his music, Cordae sets high standards for himself. As he told "Ebro in the Morning," he has a hand in every detail of his music production, from the choice of instruments used to when they are introduced, so it's not easy for him to show off his work before it's polished to his standards. But, as Naomi Osaka told GQ, she eventually gained enough of his trust to be granted the right to listen to his works in progress. "He had to warm up to me," she said, telling the magazine she had to beg repeatedly for him to share his creations. "Eventually he let me listen to his music, which I feel really grateful and honored about, to be honest. He's a perfectionist, and I think that's sort of what I am too. So maybe that's why we get along."

For his part, Cordae respects her musical sensibilities. "She has a good ear. I don't really trust too many people's ear like that," he told GQ. But, he added, both know to stay in their lanes — she's never suggested any changes to his recordings. "I don't tell her how to swing. It's a mutual respect," he said.

Rappers have a reputation in some circles as tough guys, and they're unlikely to show a soft side in public. Cordae doesn't consider himself one of those guys. "I don't try to portray some lifestyle that I'm not living. I'm not the hardest [man] walking around," he told the Associated Press. "If the situation comes about, I'm going to handle myself like a man. But I ain't no gangsta."

Instead, he chooses to stay grounded and close to his roots — which means staying close to his family and playing by their rules when he visits. And, for him, this means sleeping on the couch at his mom's house and doing his share of household chores, including mowing the lawn, while he's there. "I'm the man of the house," he told GQ. "Because it was me, my grandma, my aunt, and my mom all in a house. And so my nickname was Man since I was a little-a** boy."

Growing up in a household of women likely gave him the emotional intelligence to just be himself — but his success in the rap world offered him privileges as well. As he told GQ, he appreciates that his mother doesn't let his success go to his head — but he's also grateful to be able to simply hire a maid when she starts pestering him to clean her house.

As a lifelong lover and student of music, Cordae grew up absorbing the early rap his father played. "At like 10 years old, my pops put me on to Nas, Jay-Z, Big L, and Eric B & Rakim," he told Complex. "And of course he would play us Tupac and Biggie in the car." As he told Complex, he was so inspired by this music that he began researching it on his own to understand how it was made. And his curiosity about music isn't limited to hip-hop. He also enjoys even older music — as he told GQ, some of his favorite classic artists include Stevie Wonder, Jimi Hendrix, Marvin Gaye, Gil Scott-Heron, Chuck Berry, and Michael Jackson.

And, just as Naomi Osaka introduced Cordae to global cultures, he's been helping her build her musical knowledge. "Growing up, I feel like I just heard the hits, you know what I mean?" Osaka told GQ. "It's a really interesting thing about him. He knows the whole catalog of everyone." So, while Cordae admires Osaka for opening his eyes to more of the world, the feeling is mutual. "I always feel so lucky to be in your life and to be continuously learning from you," she wrote to him in a birthday message (per Seventeen).

As their relationship has become more established, Naomi Osaka and Cordae have made more high-profile public appearances together. Their most glamorous joint appearance yet was at the 2021 Met Gala, an event known for its high-powered guest list and jaw-dropping fashion choices. Since Osaka was one of the co-chairs of the event this year (along with fellow young luminaries Amanda Gorman, Timothee Chalamet, and Billie Eilish, according to Highsnobiety), it was pretty much inevitable that Cordae would be at her side.

Since the Met Gala is officially the Metropolitan Museum Art Costume Institute Benefit, according to The New York Times, fabulous fashion is a must, and pretty much the first question to any attendee is "What are you wearing?" Osaka and Cordae didn't disappoint: She commissioned a dramatic dress and ruffled cape jointly designed by Louis Vuitton, while her sister, Mari Osaka, intended to pay homage to her Japanese and Haitian ancestry, according to Seventeen. 

Cordae brought a lower-drama but distinctive look, featuring a khaki trench coat with a jacquard collar by Coach, black slacks, and hand-crafted black penny loafers, according to Highsnobiety. "My dawg Ean Michael really helped out a lot with the initial ideas as far as what type of style and outfit I should wear," he told Highsnobiety. "We sent it over to Coach and they executed it well."

In a world filled with people trying to cash in on their 15 minutes of fame, it sometimes feels like we're inundated with quantity over quality. However, Cordae is dedicated to his craft and is very serious about only putting his best work out there. Instead of worrying about public recognition or album sales, his focus is on the impact his music has on others.

"Awards are a beautiful thing," he told Interview. "Whether we acknowledge it or not, something deep down inside of us wants to be recognized for our art. But the number-one way I measure impact is how it makes people feel. When I'm out at the mall or grocery store, and people come up to me and be like, 'Yo man, that album saved my life. This one song got me out of a dark place. That s*** was relatable as f***.' That's like 30 Grammys to me." Cordae added that he's less concerned with following trends than he is with building a name for himself, saying: "I look at everything as legacy-based." 

Part of building that legacy means constantly striving to do better. In discussing his second album "From a Bird's Eye View" with Uproxx, he asserted that it's an improvement from his debut "The Lost Boy" and shows his evolving skill. "My lyricism is better, my songwriting is better," he said.