Style Mistakes That Are Making You Look Old

Don't make the mistake of investing your hard-earned dollars in trends that may be gone by next season. Unless you have an unlimited budget, buying into flash-in-the-pan styles that will be passé within months is just wasting your money. Instead, you should invest in styles that will remain timeless classics and be used for years to come. Celebrity wardrobe stylist Alana Kelen advises, "Look to trends that are here to stay: leather, military, dark florals, plaid, and slimmer cuts such as tailored pants and pencil skirts."

As we age, we begin to lose more fat from our faces. While this might be cause to celebrate, you need to make sure that your haircut evolves along with the shape of your face. The reason that you see older women sporting shorter "mom" haircuts is because they simply look better on them! You don't have to go full "Granny" with the super-short perm and rollers routine, though. Simply avoid letting your hair get too long, which can make your naturally thinner face look unhealthy. Choose bouncy and full layers that will frame your face and accentuate your features.

Just because you fit perfectly into a size six a decade ago does not mean you still do today. Sure, you may be able to squeeze into that pair of jeans and get them buttoned up, but if it's too tight or uncomfortable, it will feel awkward and make you look older — not younger. Don't get caught up in obsessing over the size that's on the tag, and focus on finding clothes that fit well. If you want to draw positive attention, don't be afraid to wear styles you enjoy like mini-skirts or skinny jeans, but make sure they fit you properly when you purchase them! On the flip side, don't cover yourself up with loose, baggy clothing when you don't need to. You might not feel confident in figure-hugging clothing, but wearing clothing that is too big for you will make you look boxy and larger than you are. Above all, go for a good and comfortable fit. If your clothes feel comfortable to wear, you will feel more comfortable and confident while wearing them, and confidence is the most youth-enhancing tool in your arsenal!

You need to focus on accentuating the positive when it comes to your daily outfit choices. As Alana Kelen advises, "A great rule of thumb is that if you're wearing a skinny silhouette on the bottom, choose a more forgiving, flowy piece on top. Or flip it: If wearing a tighter top, add a looser, flared skirt or a wide-leg pant to balance out the proportions." For example, skinny jeans look youthful and fresh when paired with a brightly colored tunic, but they may look like you're trying too hard to be 18 again if you wear them with a tight camisole tank top.

Balance is important when it comes to crafting a stylish look. Wearing oversized clothing disrupts that delicate equilibrium and unintentionally ages you. "Many women wear clothing that hides their shape or fits oversized in a way that just looks like they rolled out of bed and into a drapey dress," says Orly Schwartz, a stylist/wardrobe consultant at Zahavi & Schwartz, a personal and commercial style consulting agency based in New Jersey. "Oversized clothing can look wonderful when fitted properly and can be comfortable. But when you don't wear a balanced style, or because you are too concerned with arms or legs, hiding by covering up can look dated and uncomfortable."

Instead, opt for oversized clothing that isn't extreme and strike that ever-so-critical balance with other pieces. "If going with a voluminous or roomy sweater or top, make sure to balance it with a tailored or slim-fit bottom. The same is reverse for a wide bottom — balancing it with a fitted or tailored top creates balance and allows the oversized piece to be the focus," says Schwartz.

While pearls are ladylike and are enjoying a Renaissance, there is a wrong way to wear them. Leon Rbibo, president of Los Angeles-based The Pearl Source, says that while celebs like "Rihanna, Taylor Swift, Kim Kardashian, Sarah Jessica Parker, and even Kate Middleton are sparking a renewed interest in the classic gemstone," rifling through your grandmother's jewelry box to play with pearls isn't the way to go nor is it arbitrary. You don't just throw on a strand of pearls to complete a look like you do with many other accessories.

"Just... no," Rbibo tells me about layering pearls. "If you want to pull off the Rihanna look, layer long strands of pearls of smaller size for a chic yet edgy look. Layering strands of bulky jewelry looks clunky and unsophisticated." Dressing pearls down is also a major style mistake, according to Rbibo. He tells me, "Your denim jacket and romper probably don't go with a classic pearl bracelet — there are a few exceptions to the rule, of course. Instead, pair casual styles with casual pearls. Consider pearls strung on leather or twine for a much more laid back look that's going to work well in casual settings."

Clothing or accessories that are obviously from another time and place will speak volumes about the wearer. Diane Pollack, a wardrobe consultant and personal stylist in NYC, tells me, "The worst styling offense that ages someone is when the clothing looks like you could put a specific era on it and that is not a current era. For instance, a collar, sleeve, or pant shape that has not been around for a while." She continues, "I don't believe that everyone wants to be the trendiest person around. But when a piece of clothing looks like a relic, the person wearing it will, too."

Scherer concurs, noting that while fashion does like to recycle ideas, "dressing like the '80s or '90s can be fun for a party, but being attached to a trend from your youth can look tired and disconnected and therefore can make one age themselves." Instead, select "clean and classic styles that don't become irrelevant with time, and whenever experimenting with a trend, do it in moderation."

Large prints, especially on a tight clothing item like leggings, are an avoid-at-all-costs look. They are just too loud and aren't a piece that helps you look your best. "LuLaRoe leggings make a woman appear that she is trying to look younger by holding on to these ridiculous prints, and thus she looks older than she is," Padron explains. "If you want to wear leggings, because your legs get cold when you're wearing that adorable sweater dress with boots in the winter, that's fine! Go with a neutral color like black, and you'll look just fine." Those loud, bright leggings are best reserved for the millennial set.

Your bra needs change throughout different stages of life. As you age, a properly fitting bra is important, according to stylist Amy Acton. Too-young styles may not suit your needs and a frumpy style might make you appear older, as well. So you need to pay attention to your breasts and their needs.

"If you have the right bra, not only will your breasts rest where they should, your clothes will lay nicer, so you will automatically look younger and more fit," Acton tells me. "Wearing a bra that is resting too high is very obvious and screams 'I am trying to look younger' but in actuality, it is not making you look younger. Wearing a bra that is too tight creates bulges in all the wrong places — on your back, under your armpits and these are telltale sign of aging."

Age is just a number and your are only as young as you feel. You can and should dress in a way that allows you to express yourself and be comfortable. Wear what you like. But you can avoid style mistakes that unintentionally age by considering things like balance, mixing classic with modern pieces, and staying away from things that "kids these days" are wearing so that you don't appear like you are looking to fashion as your fountain of youth. Instead, make smart choices and follow the tips and suggestions outlined above.