Why Taylor Swift Skipping Travis Kelce's Football Games Isn't The Red Flag You Might Think

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It's a new era for Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce as the 2025 NFL season shoves the tight end back onto the field. While fans have gotten to enjoy witnessing Swift's best and worst game day looks, this season many are noticing a sharp drop in her appearances. Swift made a point to only attend Kansas City Chiefs home games during the 2024 season, and it appears she's on track to keep the same routine.

Considering Swift and Kelce are newly engaged, and with no major tour dates on the horizon for the singer, it seems as if people were hoping to spot more of her during game time. However, there's evidence to suggest that Swift isn't skipping games out of any bad blood between the couple, as according to Page Six, it's for security reasons. An insider explained that Swift will only attend games if "she knows the venue intimately" Which means Arrowhead Stadium in Kansas City, Missouri will most likely be the only spot she'll pop up.

While Swift "plans to be at as many of [Kelce's] games as possible," according to a source for People, the time apart could be something the couple might need to overcome. We at The List reached out to Relationship Expert Susan Winter to see just how the duo can keep up with each other. Winter suggested that "quality of time" would become incredibly important, and offered some juicy tips for the power couple to fully embrace the busy season together.

While it's easy for many to suggest that Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift are on the rocks due to a lack of public appearances, according to Susan Winter, author of "Allowing Magnificence," it might be best for them to spend time alone together. "Intentionally being present," was at the top of the list of recommendations from Winter. Especially when two megastars have schedules that demand public appearances, and with Swift's desire for ramped up security, "preplanning times to reconnect that remain protected," is a surefire way to keep the spark going.

As for ways to show each other they care when the chaotic routine hits, Winter offered pointers like "Short daily check-ins." Coupling these with some creative ideas that might speak to what it's like inside the relationship between Swift and Kelce, Winter suggested they could make playlists for each other. Winter even floated the idea of Swift including some of her own songs, as they "express her unique thoughts and feelings," and could "create a powerful sense of connection."

Winter rounds out her suggestions with a reminder that celebrating each other publicly is always a good idea. This could look like "posting encouragement on social media," or even making sure to call each other after an event. So even with security concerns and busy schedules, it's most likely safe to assume the couple is getting in some much needed private time together and fans need not worry.