Who Is Prince Edward's Wife, The Countess Of Wessex?

Queen Elizabeth II's youngest child Prince Edward, Earl of Wessex, is arguably one of the more low-key members of the British royal family. Per the royal family's official website, Edward is 13th in line to the throne. In the late '90s, he married to Sophie Rhys-Jones, now known as the Countess of Wessex, with whom he shares two children, daughter Lady Louise and son James, Viscount Severn. 

Much like Catherine, Princess of Wales, and Meghan Markle, the Duchess of Sussex, Sophie was born a commoner. The countess was born in Oxford, England in 1965. She would go on to meet the queen and Prince Philip's youngest son, Prince Edward, in 1993 while attending an event. Six years later, the Earl of Wessex proposed to Sophie, and the couple wed shortly thereafter (via Showbiz Cheat Sheet).

But what else is there to know about his wife the Countess of Wessex, and what is her role within the royal family?

As far as royal weddings go, the marriage of Prince Edward and Sophie, the Countess of Wessex, was relatively low-key. They were wed in June 1999 at St. George's Chapel in Windsor. Though this is the same chapel where Prince Harry married Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, there was none of the ceremonial pomp attached to the day.

As Tatler reported, there were no official state ceremonial or military activities as part of the festivities. The bride's gown appeared simple and elegant — much less fluffy than the other recent royal brides. In truth, though, her Samantha Keswick creation was silk organza ornamented with 325,000 crystals and pearls. The designer told Tatler that the fabric was dyed to match exactly the color of the stone steps of St. George's chapel. 

And while the wedding was a decidedly less lavish affair than those of heirs closer to the throne, the number of television viewers was a staggering 200 million. 

When the couple's first daughter, Louise, was born, she was a month premature and was in a neo-natal unit after a traumatic delivery. Lady Louise developed an eye condition called esotropia, which was later corrected by surgery. Because of these two events early in her experience as a mother, the Countess of Wessex has chosen to offer her patronage to organizations that support maternal and baby nutrition and care. When visiting a hospital in India, she connected with the mothers who'd recently delivered premature children. "She spoke very openly about her own experience as a mother of a premature child," one of the countess' staff told People. "She understood why some women were quite traumatized by the experience. That connection was very beautiful."

Sophie has also worked tirelessly in support of World Sight Day to help fight trachoma. In October 2022, she appeared in Malawi to celebrate the announcement of a cure for trachoma, a disease that caused blindness. In 2019, she joined in International Women's Day to announce her commitment to champion women who have suffered from conflict-related sexual violence. As she is quoted on the royal family's website, "It's our duty to continue to do all we can to break down barriers, encourage society to embrace those who innocently fell victim to others brutality and create an understanding environment ... to give people the confidence ... to come forward and seek support." 

Sophie's friend Mark Foster-Brown told the Evening Standard, "She is really good at helping people out and being empathetic and saying the right thing. She has a particular talent for hitting the right note and letting people feel that she really does care."

Though her relationship with the royals got off to an embarrassing start after the scandal of 2001, it was ultimately Buckingham Palace who came to the Countess of Wessex's aid and protected her in the press, according to The Washington Post. Over the years, Sophie developed a stronger relationship with Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Philip. The countess lost her own mother to cancer in 2005 and took to calling the queen "mama," People reported. Biographer Ingrid Seward wrote in her book, "Prince Philip Revealed: A Man of His Century," "She got on very well with Philip. She knew how to handle him. ... She made him laugh, and was not fazed by his abruptness."

After his death, Sophie told the BBC that grieving his death would take a long time. "It's only when you would do the normal things that you would have done with them, and you suddenly realise that they are not there, that you really start to have an 'oh my goodness' moment.

Following the death of Prince Philip, Sophie grew even closer to the queen. The Evening Standard reported she was often the royal chosen to take his place next to the queen because she found Sophie's presence reassuring. During lockdown, Sophie made it her habit to drive within waving distance of the queen at Windsor every few days. The two would also watch old movies and documentaries. A royal source told The Sun "If some particular event or battle caught their imagination, the Queen would sometimes arrange for the Royal Archives — kept at Windsor — to be opened so the two could pore over any relevant documents. Sophie is very keen on history, she's proud of her knowledge of military campaigns, and she and the Queen could chunter on for hours about whether this general or that admiral made the right move in some battle or other."

When she married into the monarchy, Sophie, Countess of Wessex, admitted to Express that she chafed against the obsession with fashion and style among the royals. Coming from a PR background, she'd taught herself to blend into the background. So how did this fashion wallflower learn to embrace designer-wear enough to be named among Vanity Fair's most fashionable in 2015?

"It's about my charities but I recognise that I'm on display," she told Express. I remember having a chat with somebody and them saying, 'You know you've got to recognise that this is part and parcel of what you're doing. When you walk into a room, yes people are going to talk about what you're doing there, but they're also going to want to know what you're wearing.' I sort of wrestled with that one for a little while and slightly caved in at the end of the day."

Sophie admitted that, over the years, she has learned what she likes and dislikes and has her go-to designers. She's a regular fan of Oscar de la Renta, Emilia Wickstead, and Jane Taylor for her haberdashery.