What You Don't Know About Meghan Markle's Dad

To say that Meghan Markle and Prince Harry have been surrounded by controversy throughout their relationship is an understatement. From their jaw-dropping interview with Oprah Winfrey, to their very public feud with Prince William, it's safe to say that the ex-royal couple has stayed in the headlines, whether or not they've wanted to. After leaving the royal family in early 2020 and moving to the United States, Harry and Meghan have tried to redefine themselves in the public eye, turning their attention to their foundation and advocacy work. But one scandal that absolutely will not leave them alone is Meghan's relationship with her father, Thomas Markle.

For those of you who aren't die-hard royal fans, you should know that Thomas made waves when confusion surrounding his attendance at the royal wedding began to circulate. Between rumored fake "health scares" to threatening to sue his daughter over visitation rights of his grandchildren, Thomas has made it clear that there is bad blood between him and Meghan. But how did that come to be? Who is Thomas Markle and what has his life looked like? Here's what you don't know about Meghan Markle's dad.

If you've ever heard about Meghan Markle's siblings making their rounds in the media circuit, you might be wondering if said siblings are fully related to her, half-siblings, etc. What is the case? Well, according to Hollywood Life, Thomas Markle married his first wife, Roslyn Loveless, in 1964. The two met during a party at the University of Chicago, and eventually tied the knot. While they were together, Thomas and Loveless had two children — Yvonne Marie Markle (who you most likely know as Samantha Markle), and Thomas Wayne Markle Jr., who were born in 1964 and 1966 respectively. The couple eventually split in 1975. 

So to answer any remaining questions, the two siblings who have essentially ridden Meghan's coattails into the spotlight are her half-siblings, and Samantha specifically has made it her mission, it seems, to call Meghan out over her supposed treatment of their father. Despite not having not spoken to her half-sister since 2008, Samantha told Us Weekly that Meghan "doesn't have a heart" when it comes to their father. "[Meghan] would [be] doing everything she could to make him comfortable, and reciprocate, and be loving and gracious," if she cared about her father, Samantha said.

When we think about Meghan Markle's relationship with her father, Thomas Markle, the words "tense" and "complicated" might come to mind. But when she was little, Meghan had a closer bond with her father, and he made a point of taking her to film and television sets as a kid — that explains a lot, given Meghan's successful acting career. As noted by Hollywood Life, Thomas would "often" take Meghan along with him to set, which certainly seems like a dream scenario for a little kid destined to become a prominent actress. But to say that their relationship was close, even when Meghan was young, is an overstatement. 

According to the Daily Mail, Thomas worked "crazy" hours when Meghan was young, and the responsibility of raising her fell on Doria Ragland, her mother, significantly. "Culturally our family did not have male figures around. The women were the ones left to raise the children. And Meghan was lucky my sister and mother were tough, fair, funny and smart," Meghan's uncle, Joseph Johnson, shared. "Meghan was raised by her mother and grandmother, two beautiful, strong black women who instilled in her a sense of self-belief."

Before Meghan Markle's father lost his lottery money, he did put some of it to good use. When it came to Meghan, Thomas Markle used some of the money to help his daughter in her academic pursuits, which is certainly a good use of it. "If Meg marries Harry she'll have won the lottery of life but dad winning the lottery helped us all," Meghan's brother, Thomas Markle Jr., told Mail on Sunday (via the Independent). "That money allowed Meg to go to the best schools and get the best training. Meg is someone who has always had laser focus. She knows what she wants and she doesn't stop until she gets it," he continued. 

As for Meghan's education, she certainly didn't settle for anything less than best. According to Business Insider, she was "a star in the classroom" while attending the all-girls private school, Immaculate Heart. After leaving the Catholic high school (where she was also made Homecoming Queen), Meghan went on to attend Northwestern University. While at university, the future duchess studied both theatre and international studies — it's almost like she knew a future in international affairs would await her.

All eyes were on Meghan Markle when it was announced that she and Prince Harry would be tying the knot. The second son of Prince Charles and Diana Spencer was arguably the world's most eligible bachelor, and so many of us were jealous when the gorgeous actress swept the prince off his feet. However, not everyone was thrilled with the attention, and Thomas Markle was reportedly very bothered by the "harassment" that he was facing at the hands of the paparazzi. In the wake of his complaint, Kensington Palace released a statement, asking publishers to maintain distance with Thomas, as per the Daily Mail. 

But did you know that Thomas "secretly collaborated" with members of the British paparazzi in order to stage photos of him reading about Great Britain? Yes, even after Harry made a public statement asking the cameras to leave the retired lighting designer alone. The photos in question that Thomas staged allowed him and the photographer, Jeff Rayner, to bag about $132,000. The two met at an internet cafe, and were seen on CCTV cameras staging the photos with Thomas reading an article about Meghan and Harry.

It's easy to get caught up in the "he said, she said" nature of Thomas Markle and Meghan Markle's relationship, but did you know that the court is involved? As noted by The Guardian, Thomas and Meghan are pretty much going head to head over the contents of a letter published by the Mail on Sunday, and it's an ongoing fight that is pretty brutal to say the least. 

Back in February, Meghan won a lawsuit against Mail on Sunday regarding a "personal and private" letter from her to her father that her father had then handed over to the publication for distribution. The high court ruled the case in her favor, and determined that publishing the letter was "manifestly excessive and hence unlawful." As of publication, the letter is back on the legal forefront as the legal defense for the Mail on Sunday have argued that Meghan was the orchestrator of a "nasty and untrue" People article regarding her father and the letter in question. The lawyers argued that Meghan wrote the letter to her father "with potential public consumption in mind." To say it's all a mess is an understatement.

It's hard to imagine that Meghan Markle would want anything to do with her father given the headline wars — but the estranged father told the hosts of "Good Morning Britain" that he still thinks Meghan will reconnect. Page Six reported that Thomas Markle hasn't seen Meghan since before her wedding to Prince Harry, and since has been targeting her in the media. But he went on to tell "Good Morning Britain" hosts Richard Madeley and Susanna Reid that regardless of hearing "not a word" from the royal couple, he is adamant that a relationship between them will happen in the future. 

"Eventually she'll start talking to me. This is way too childish, this is kind of silly," Thomas said. "It's time to talk with each other, we're family. The kids are going to grow up without knowing they have two families." He went on to say that the situation between him and his daughter involves far more than just the two of them — but rather because it involves Harry, Archie, and Lilibet, "it's time to do something. To talk." Time will tell.

It's hard to think that Meghan Markle's father really wants a relationship with her again, because he never shies away from criticizing her publicly. Most recently as of publication, Thomas Markle came out against Meghan's recent appearance on "The Ellen DeGeneres Show" where she played a silly prank on unknowing vendors, with the funny talk show host telling her what to say through an earpiece. 

Thomas was (unsurprisingly) not a fan. He told The Mirror that the whole segment was a "stupid stunt" that was shameful to the royal family. "It's no way to behave. The whole thing was kind of embarrassing. It was certainly embarrassing for the royal family," he said. "It's embarrassing for her as well. I suspect it embarrassed everyone in the U.K., too." We were surprised that he'd have such an admission, but Thomas went on to say that he's "never seen a duchess behave this way," and that the appearance on the talk show was completely out of line for Meghan. Given that the funny video has over 2.1 million views on YouTube as of publication, we think Meghan is clearly doing something right.